Apps To Spice Up Your Love Life

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With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, there is no better time to get inspired to step your game up in the bedroom. You might think that the Nerds wouldn’t be much help when it comes to this topic, but there are quite a few apps that can really help to spice up your love life. Trying to keep an open mind with your partner when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom can be difficult, but with the help of technology it is becoming less and less intimidating to propose new ideas.

  1. Kindu

    Kindu is an app that can really improve your sex life. The program offers ideas to inspire intimacy by suggesting things to try in and out of the bathroom. Though some of the ideas may come off crazy, Kindu is a fun tool for inspiring you to do things that you may not have considered, but are interested in. These new ideas encourage open communication about things you and your partner may be interested in trying but have been embarrassed to bring up in the past. As open as some people may try to be, it usually gets uncomfortable when risqué topics come up in conversation.

    You can pair your account with your partner to see over 1,000 ideas delivered in small packs. For example, “Get busy in a gondola” or “Designate one night a week to lingerie.” When you see an idea that you like, you can privately tag it with a “like it,” “open to it,” and “not even on your birthday.” The ideas that you both approve will be revealed as matches, while those that one person is not open to will not go any further. Each partner gets a “personal wildcard” that they can place into their partners “deck” of ideas. You and your partner can create hotlists to highlight and prioritize ideas that you are easy to try. Kindu is a great way to encourage honesty and spice up your love life at the same time.

  2. Desire42

    Desire42 is an app for those who take a competitive approach to intimacy. Through the app, you can send dares to your partner; for each dare they accept and complete, points are earned. You and your partner can compete to rack up the most points. The app suggests dares that are grouped by categories such as: outdoor, role play, fantasy, dress code, and more. Desire42 can help all couples be more open minded to trying new things spice up the bedroom. Couples who are competitive in their desires to try new and exciting stuff with one another are more likely to keep the spark in their relationship going. Desire42 is a great app for couples who love out-doing each other, and it is possible to use this app as motivation. Try something like the partner with the lower score after a couple of weeks has to treat the other to dinner, or maybe do additional chores.

  3. Dirty Game - Hot Truth or Dare





    The Dirty Game – Hot Truth or Dare app allows partners to play a naughty game of truth or dare. With thousands of truths and dares, the questions are divided into 5 categories: Icebreaker – risqué party game, Flirt – body exposure, kissing, Romantic – suggests dares and questions to inspire intimacy, Foreplay, and Sex. Choose a group of adults for game play, or just play with your partner. The Dirty Game has over 53,000 reviews and still holds a 5 star review in the App store. This app is great for parties or to spice up things in the bedroom. The Icebreaker party game can get pretty awkward if party-goers are not open minded, so make sure that you choose the right people to play with. With a 5 star rating in the app store, you can bet that people enjoy using this app, as it keeps things interesting between couples and strangers alike.

  4. 69 Places App




    For only 99 cents, this straightforward app suggests alternative locales for getting busy. 69 Places offers adventures ideas for getting out of the bedroom. The areas are categorized in areas such as: In the home, Outdoors, Public Places, and Transportation. When you “hit” a new area, you can check the area off the list while the app shows your progress towards trying to hit all 69 places, but there is really closer to 99 ideas. Getting intimate in a new place always helps spice up your love life. Some of the places on the lists may be more challenging to get to than others, but that is half of the fun! If you and your partner manage to conquer every location within the app, create a new list on your own.

  5. Undercovers




    With the Undercovers app, you and your partner each create an account and scroll through 99 different fantasies. You can then indicate which ones you may be interested in trying. For starters, you press the “Match” button to connect with your partner through a matching code that the app produces. This way you do not need to provide your email address or any personal information. Only the fantasies that both you and your partner like will show as matches. Undercovers also offers a “talk about it” option for those ideas that you would consider but would want to talk about in advanced. This way, you can spice up your love life without stepping on any toes. Undercovers is a useful app for couples who have been together for many years, but have yet to experiment beyond the norms in the bedroom. There may be tension between a couple if one partner is open to something and the other is not, and this app helps eliminate that tension by revealing what you are open to only after your partner has said they are open to the same thing.

About The Author: Andrea Andrea Eldridge is CEO and co-founder of Nerds On Call, a computer repair company that specializes in on-site and online service for homes and businesses. Andrea is the writer of a weekly column, Nerd Chick Adventures in The Record Searchlight. She prepares TV segments for and appears regularly on CBS, CW and FOX on shows such as Good Day Sacramento, More Good Day Portland, and CBS 13 News, offering viewers technology and lifestyle tips. See Andrea in action at